I had a conversation this morning with a good friend of mine about a range of topics, but mostly theological. Some of the things we discussed would be considered pretty divisive. As I got in the car and pulled away, I realized that much of the conversation was me taking the opposite side of whatever issue we were discussing. This made for lively debate, but did little to further my particular views on the issues. Is this a good thing?
I’ve come to see my role as someone that illicits thoughtful discussion. However, in a culture that places significant value on “winning”, it is difficult to find people that want to converse, most want to convince. And while that may sometimes be beneficial, it rarely leads to the mutual growth that comes from thoughtful, grace-filled discussion.
What’s the old saying? – “A person convinced against their will, holds the same opinion still.”